The only place you need for surrogacy.

From thought to finish.

The Biggest Ask offers everything surrogates and intended parents need for their surrogacy journey.

With us, you can: 



  • Ready to find your match? Our philosophy is that wonderful matches happen when intended parents share their story for surrogacy. We invite intended parents to share their story and we invite surrogates to check out their profiles.


  • Once you find your match, ensure that your journey is as smooth and fulfilling as possible by joining our surrogacy program, where we guide and support you every step of the way.

Why should you join The Biggest Ask community?

Embarking on a surrogacy journey from scratch is incredibly intimidating. Don’t let fear drive any of your decisions. Learn everything about surrogacy from us – The Biggest Ask – your source for unbiased and well-balanced information about surrogacy.

When you join The Biggest Ask you immediately: 

Gain free access to our free online surrogacy guide

Can sign up for our free virtual workshops

Gain access to resources (e.g., agency lists, surrogacy attorney lists, etc) that provide in-depth information to help you select an agency if that is the route you plan to take

Join a community of other intended parents and surrogates!

Meet some of our intended parents looking for a surrogate:

Lauren and Matt

About Us Matt and I met as sophomores while we both attended Mizzou in February 2009. “College sweethearts”, we embarked on a journey that led us to say “I do” in 2014. Eager to expand our family, we faced a

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Alexis and Benjamin

About Us We are college sweethearts who met at the University of Pittsburgh (HAIL TO PITT!) when Alexis was a freshman and Benjy was a junior. In what seems like the blink of an eye, we’ve been together 12 years,

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Paige and Giovanni

About Us It was crazy enough, but we did meet online shortly after the death of my husband’s father. I thought I was destined to be alone forever. I signed up for a dating website and he was the only

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Mary and Rob

About Us Rob and I met in 7th grade when he started as a new student at our middle school. We instantly connected and have been best friends ever since. We started dating after high school and have been together

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