
Erika is a military wife, mama to two kids, and has done THREE surrogacy journeys!
Q: Tell us a bit about yourself! A: I am from California currently living in San Diego where my husband is stationed. I am married
The Biggest Ask provides education about surrogacy and facilitates connections between surrogates and intended parents
To complete our mission, we provide 3 main services:
We offer a completely free on-line course about how a typical surrogacy journey works in the USA, catered to both intended parents and surrogates.
We offer many free surrogacy-related resources that should help you on your journey. Whether you’re interested in finding a list of surrogacy agencies, or a list of surrogacy attorneys, we have information that will be useful to you.
We are committed to sharing the stories of both gestational carriers and intended parents to help spread awareness about surrogacy. We are not an agency. Our main goal is to educate and help make connections between potential surrogates and their intended parents.
I’m thinking about becoming a surrogate – why should I join The Biggest Ask community?
The decision to become a surrogate should be made with unbiased information and without pressure from anyone, especially surrogacy agencies. The Biggest Ask is a free educational resource for anyone interested in becoming a surrogate to use to learn all of the important aspects of a surrogacy journey.
Receive a free informational packet catered specifically to surrogates
Gain free access to our online surrogacy guide
Gain free access to our surrogacy resources, including a comprehensive surrogacy agency, lawyer and escrow list, and one-on-one surrogacy agency interview videos
Join a community of other surrogates!
If you follow us on @thebiggestask, you’ll also stay up to date on our live events where we talk to experienced surrogates from all different agencies and journeys.
Q: Tell us a bit about yourself! A: I am from California currently living in San Diego where my husband is stationed. I am married
Q: Tell us a bit about yourself. What made you decide to become a surrogate? A: I live in Southern California & have been married
Our Story As two women, we never imagined that we would find ourselves needing a surrogate but after 2.5 years of multiple failed at-home inseminations,
Our Story We have struggled with infertility since 2017. After a devastating loss and a year praying for a baby, we were told that we
I’m thinking about becoming a parent through surrogacy – why should I join The Biggest Ask community?
Embarking on a surrogacy journey from scratch is incredibly intimidating. Don’t let fear drive any of your decisions. Learn everything about surrogacy from us – The Biggest Ask – your source for unbiased and well-balanced information about surrogacy.
Gain free access to our free online surrogacy guide
Can sign up for our free virtual workshops
Gain access to resources (e.g., agency lists, surrogacy attorney lists, etc) that provide in-depth information to help you select an agency if that is the route you plan to take
Join a community of other intended parents and surrogates!
Intended parents, gestational carriers, pre birth order, and so much more lingo. There is a lot of vocabulary in surrogacy that you learn and adjust
Building our family through a surrogacy journey in the U.S. was probably the best decision we could have made. We became fathers to two wonderful
When I was 16 years old, I was diagnosed with MRKH (Mayer-Rokitansky-Küster-Hauser syndrome). I was born without a uterus, meaning I am unable to conceive.
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