Your surrogacy community

"Having a baby through surrogacy was never in my plans, but then I got cancer. The biggest surprise of my life is how rewarding the whole experience was. I love our surrogate and she will always be a part of our life."

"I felt so privileged to be able to do this, and in a way, I felt kind of like a voyeur into the happiness of another couple – but also I felt in a very real way that I had made their happiness possible.”

"It's hard to put into words the feeling you get from helping another family come to life."

"While I’ve still had to process and grieve the fact that I possibly won’t ever be able to carry my own pregnancy, I’m just so incredibly grateful that surrogacy is even an option."

"Looking back now, we can say that meeting Ashley and her family was one of the most important encounters in our life. She made our biggest dream come true and we cannot be any happier. "

The Biggest Ask provides education about surrogacy and facilitates connections between surrogates and intended parents

To complete our mission, we provide 3 main services:

We offer a completely free on-line course about how a typical surrogacy journey works in the USA, catered to both intended parents and surrogates.

We offer many free surrogacy-related resources that should help you on your journey. Whether you’re interested in finding a list of surrogacy agencies, or a list of surrogacy attorneys, we have information that will be useful to you.

We are committed to sharing the stories of both gestational carriers and intended parents to help spread awareness about surrogacy. We are not an agency. Our main goal is to educate and help make connections between potential surrogates and their intended parents.

Brand new! The Biggest Ask Surrogacy Program

I’m thinking about becoming a surrogate – why should I join The Biggest Ask community?

The decision to become a surrogate should be made with unbiased information and without pressure from anyone, especially surrogacy agencies. The Biggest Ask is a free educational resource for anyone interested in becoming a surrogate to use to learn all of the important aspects of a surrogacy journey.

When you join The Biggest Ask you immediately:

If you follow us on @thebiggestask, you’ll also stay up to date on our live events where we talk to experienced surrogates from all different agencies and journeys.

Read some stories from our surrogate community:

Ashleigh is a two-time surrogate & she just recently delivered a beautiful surro baby boy!

Q: Tell us about yourself & what led you to surrogacy! A: I am a mom to 2 beautiful little girls – Madelyn, 6 and

Aostoff November 11, 2022

Miranda is a proud mama of 2 preteen girls, & is currently pregnant with her second surro babe! She’s known she wanted to be a surrogate since she was 18!

Q: Tell us about yourself & what led you to surrogacy! A: I am an overly proud mother to my 11 year old daughter, Kya

Aostoff November 9, 2022

Meet some of our intended parents looking for a surrogate:

Ashley and Eric

Our Story Ashley & Eric have been together for 16 years (married for 8). They’ve been trying to achieve their dream of having a child

Aostoff February 3, 2023

Alyssa and Matt

Our Story We met in college many years ago and have been married for over 5 years. We live in Philadelphia with our pet bunny,

Aostoff January 15, 2023

I’m thinking about becoming a parent through surrogacy – why should I join The Biggest Ask community?

Embarking on a surrogacy journey from scratch is incredibly intimidating. Don’t let fear drive any of your decisions. Learn everything about surrogacy from us – The Biggest Ask – your source for unbiased and well-balanced information about surrogacy.

When you join The Biggest Ask you immediately: