Your surrogacy community

"Having a baby through surrogacy was never in my plans, but then I got cancer. The biggest surprise of my life is how rewarding the whole experience was. I love our surrogate and she will always be a part of our life."

"I felt so privileged to be able to do this, and in a way, I felt kind of like a voyeur into the happiness of another couple – but also I felt in a very real way that I had made their happiness possible.”

"It's hard to put into words the feeling you get from helping another family come to life."

"While I’ve still had to process and grieve the fact that I possibly won’t ever be able to carry my own pregnancy, I’m just so incredibly grateful that surrogacy is even an option."

"Looking back now, we can say that meeting Ashley and her family was one of the most important encounters in our life. She made our biggest dream come true and we cannot be any happier. "

The Biggest Ask provides education about surrogacy and facilitates connections between surrogates and intended parents

To complete our mission, we provide 3 main services:

We offer a completely free on-line course about how a typical surrogacy journey works in the USA, catered to both intended parents and surrogates.

We offer many free surrogacy-related resources that should help you on your journey. Whether you’re interested in finding a list of surrogacy agencies, or a list of surrogacy attorneys, we have information that will be useful to you.

We are committed to sharing the stories of both gestational carriers and intended parents to help spread awareness about surrogacy. We are not an agency. Our main goal is to educate and help make connections between potential surrogates and their intended parents.

I’m thinking about becoming a surrogate – why should I join The Biggest Ask community?

The decision to become a surrogate should be made with unbiased information and without pressure from anyone, especially surrogacy agencies. The Biggest Ask is a free educational resource for anyone interested in becoming a surrogate to use to learn all of the important aspects of a surrogacy journey.

When you join The Biggest Ask you immediately:

If you follow us on @thebiggestask, you’ll also stay up to date on our live events where we talk to experienced surrogates from all different agencies and journeys.

Read some stories from our surrogate community:

Erika is a military wife, mama to two kids, and has done THREE surrogacy journeys!

Q: Tell us a bit about yourself! A: I am from California currently living in San Diego where my husband is stationed. I am married

Ashley March 30, 2022

Brittany is a mom of three kiddos and is in the early stages of a second surrogacy journey!

Q: Tell us a bit about yourself. What made you decide to become a surrogate? A: I live in Southern California & have been married

Ashley March 14, 2022

Meet some of our intended parents looking for a surrogate:

Antonio and Benedetto

Our Story We are a gay couple (34 & 30) with a beautiful daughter and two sweet dogs. We are from Italy and live

Aostoff June 20, 2022

Maggie and Sarah

Our Story As two women, we never imagined that we would find ourselves needing a surrogate but after 2.5 years of multiple failed at-home inseminations,

Ashley April 9, 2022

I’m thinking about becoming a parent through surrogacy – why should I join The Biggest Ask community?

Embarking on a surrogacy journey from scratch is incredibly intimidating. Don’t let fear drive any of your decisions. Learn everything about surrogacy from us – The Biggest Ask – your source for unbiased and well-balanced information about surrogacy.

When you join The Biggest Ask you immediately: