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The Biggest Ask Forums For Surrogates What are you doing to prepare for transfer?

  • What are you doing to prepare for transfer?

    Posted by Alycia.K on July 19, 2022 at 11:11 pm

    What kinds of things are you doing to prepare for transfer?

    We have our 4th transfer coming up at the end of august. I’ll be doing a natural cycle this time. I’m trying to think of things I can do. I’ll stop drinking alcohol before my first ultrasound but aside from that I don’t know what.

    I know that aside from taking meds properly, nothing is proven to help but I think even just feeling like I’m doing something differently could help and definitely wouldn’t hurt.

    USSurrogate04 replied 1 year, 10 months ago 5 Members · 4 Replies
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  • Devin

    July 19, 2022 at 11:15 pm

    I was just talking to a friend about this today. I’m getting back on a workout regimen, even if it’s just a walk outside on days that I don’t want to lift.

    I also will cut out alcohol and make sure I’m eating well and taking my vitamins.

  • Aostoff

    July 20, 2022 at 12:13 am

    I always prepare with vitamins, light exercise, drinking lots of water, and sending allllllll positive vibes and energy out into the universe ❤️ We are all rooting for you girl!

  • Jill

    July 25, 2022 at 3:26 pm

    We did weekly acupuncture to help thicken lining, relieve some of the side effects of meds and provide relaxation. Who knows if it actually helps but figures it won’t hurt!

  • USSurrogate04

    July 27, 2022 at 7:11 pm

    I’m taking extra vitamin D and E (on top of prenatals). I’m also a “body as a whole” type person so I step up my chiropractic visits so everything in aligned and working. Mostly I try to be as stress free as possible- usually this means massages to me. Making myself take that time to relax has always seem to help, mentally and physically.

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