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The Biggest Ask Forums For Surrogates New Journey Reply To: New Journey

  • MJC

    Administrator
    November 6, 2022 at 1:06 pm

    @Devin So sorry it took me a while to respond! I totally agree with @Meagan – embryo transfers fail all of the time and most of the time it’s because of the quality. That has nothing to do with you and if I were a parent looking for a GC, I would definitely be open to chatting with you.

    But with that said, I would probably ask you if there was anything about the transfer itself that was weird – like what was your lining, how did you respond to the medication, any weird thawing issues with embryos, etc. If something was a bit different about your situation I would ask more questions πŸ™‚ Hope this was helpful! Good luck!