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  • MJC

    December 18, 2022 at 2:21 am

    Hi @IdahoSurrogate – I am so sorry for the delay! I think it’s so wonderful that you are thinking about doing this for a friend! My first piece of advice is to find a surrogacy lawyer within your state. Interview a few of them – see how you feel. Make sure that you are heard and that you are treated with kindness! A good surrogacy lawyer can go such a long way in helping you out during a journey. Another source of support can be the fertility clinic that you and your IPs will use to do the embryo transfer. Sometimes the nurses and coordinators do a lot to help you through the steps.

    I don’t have any good recommendations for a consultant, but in a few months, The Biggest Ask will start offering a surrogacy program meant to support surrogates and intended parents during a journey for $99/month.