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  • Ashley

    January 11, 2023 at 5:02 am

    Thank you *so much* for validating my feelings and sharing your own experience – I truly felt like I was in uncharted territory. I’ve never heard anyone say that they should have advocated more for themselves. You put it perfectly – certain things just felt frivolous to even ask for (when in hindsight they are not at all) and my feelings did not seem important in comparison to the lengths my IP’s have gone through to build a family. I am so, so happy to be able to make this a reality for them. They are so deserving! I just wish someone had been there to say “don’t forget that you matter, too.”