Every path to surrogacy tells a story...

Begin your surrogacy journey, here

Surrogacy is growing and might be for you. Before making one of the biggest decisions of your life, make sure you’re equipped with relevant information from an unbiased source. Introducing The Biggest Ask – the first full-service surrogacy community.

Our mission at The Biggest Ask is to provide the information and resources that intended parents and surrogates need to make the best decisions for their own surrogacy journeys. We share the stories that hide behind every surrogacy journey so that potential surrogates and intended parents can connect.

To complete our mission, we provide 3 main services: 


We offer a completely free on-line course about how a typical surrogacy journey works in the USA, catered to both intended parents and surrogates.

We offer many free surrogacy-related resources that should help you on your journey. Whether you’re interested in finding a list of surrogacy agencies, or a list of surrogacy attorneys, we have information that will be useful to you. 

We are committed to sharing the stories of both gestational carriers and intended parents to help spread awareness about surrogacy. We are not an agency. Our main goal is to educate and help make connections between potential surrogates and their intended parents.

Meet Some of our Intended Parents Looking for a Surrogate

Erika and Phillip

Our Story We are from Northern Virginia and have been married for 5 years. We live just outside of Washington, D.C. with our two adorable

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Chelsea and Jason

Our Story In 2018, we decided we were ready to start a family. We naively planned for an immediate pregnancy and 9 months later- a

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Sarah and Matt

Our Story Our love story is one you might have heard quite often years ago; however, in today’s world, it’s few and far between. We

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Terra is in the early stages of her THIRD surrogacy journey, she has worked with an agency & plans to go independently this time!

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