The Biggest Ask Surrogacy Program

Using personalized support and technology to help intended parents and surrogates manage and thrive through the most meaningful journey of their lives

Only $99 per month gives each set of IPs and surrogate access to our one-of-a-kind program. Our current program size is 10 surrogacy journeys.

Join the waitlist now for the next open spot.

Personalized support.

Open text line and weekly consultation office hours for IPs and surrogates to get the support they need. find out more

Custom technology

Access to our custom app that helps IPs and surrogates manage their journey and bond with each other. find out more

Important resources

Curated milestone newsletters that educate you on what to expect at your next appointment. And more! find out more Join our surrogacy program waitlist today

Who is supporting you through your journey?

MaryJane (MJ)

MJ is a mother through surrogacy and is the founder of The Biggest Ask. Leveraging her skills as a business professor, she has written a surrogacy guide, put together a surrogacy online course and now has developed this program and surrogacy app to help make beautiful surrogacy journeys possible for everyone. MJ’s mission is to make surrogacy as cost efficient and fulfilling as possible. Learn more about MJ’s story and follow her on Instagram.

Ashley

Ashley is an experienced gestational surrogate and birthed twins to intended fathers in 2020. Ashley and MJ met through their mutual passion for surrogacy via Instagram in 2021 and together they have built a flourishing surrogacy community. Ashley is a stay-at-home mom and has two beautiful children, is an avid crocheter, gardener and a creative and enthusiastic DIY-er. She can do it all. Ashley is MJ’s yin to her yang and together they make the perfect team. Schedule a free 15 minute consult to see if The Biggest Ask is for you

What you can expect from us

Offering	The Biggest Ask Program	Surrogacy Agencies
Match Surrogates and Intended Parents	Yes via our matching post service	Yes with frequent one-year wait times
Help screen gestational carriers	Yes	Yes
Discuss insurance options, lawyers and escrow	Yes	Yes
Give comprehensive and personalized support	Yes	Yes
Guide you through every milestone	Yes	Yes
Serve as an intermediary between intended parents and surrogates (if necessary)	Yes	Yes
Help with surrogate-IP bonding	Yes	No
Average Total Cost Per Surrogacy	$1,800* + $150/matching post	$25,000

Frequently asked questions

1. I have already signed up with a surrogacy agency. Should I join The Biggest Ask program?

Yes! Our program is meant for anyone looking to make the most of their surrogacy journey. Whether you are wishing to bond more with your surrogacy partner, receive more support during your journey, or stay on top of all the moving parts, we have got you covered!

2. I’m looking for someone to call lawyers, set up appointments and call providers on my behalf. Is this experience for me?

The Biggest Ask Surrogacy Program is meant to provide our members with the education and support they need to manage their own journey. We offer the technology to help intended parents and surrogates manage their own journeys and the support to help make the entire journey be as beautiful as can be. We do not personally coordinate with any third parties.

3. I don’t have a surrogate yet. Is this program for me?

Yes! IPs still searching for a surrogate are encouraged to join the program if they would like a low-cost option to seek consultations about how to find a surrogate or how to get started. IPs might also want to consider running a matching ad with The Biggest Ask that is posted to our community if they are looking for a surrogate. Learn more here.

4. I’d like to learn more about surrogacy before joining a program like this. Do you have any other resources available?

Absolutely! MJ has written a surrogacy guide available for $10 on Amazon. She also offers free online videos about the process that is available to everyone. Learn more here.

MJ and Ashley also host a free support call for IPs and surrogates, separately, every Tuesday (IPs) and Wednesday (surros). Sign up here to get the zoom link (support calls are audio based).

5. What happens if I don’t feel like I’m getting any value from The Biggest Ask program?

Our program is a monthly subscription. You are free at any time to end your subscription with us.

We just love getting feedback like this...

here's a small sample of recent testimonials

"Thank you for offering this training and all of the helpful resources on your website, MaryJane! We have been pursuing surrogacy for a couple of years now, and finding solid and reliable information in one source has been a challenge throughout the process, so finding your training and website has been incredible." Michelle T.Intended Parent "...Wanted to message you to tell you that I keep referring back to your amazing website! So thankful for all of the information on there...." Katharine I.Intended Parent "Thank you so much...would you mind if I gave you a shout out on my story? Your webinar and chatting with you has helped me SO much throughout all of this." Lena M.Intended Parent "Thank you!! My husband and I literally were just talking the other day and we were like - i hope you really knows how amazing your Insta/website has been, please keep it up!! It has helped us so much and we are looking forward to the day we will put all this knowledge to use." Madalyn C.Intended Parent "I'm so grateful to the resources you've been putting out there for IPs, it helped me a lot with getting started. Wishing you all the best!." Rose C.Intended Parent "Hi there! I just want to say that I have found so much value in this account (and kind of wish I found it before I started my journey) but it has been an absolute favorite resource in my journey so far (25 weeks pregnant with surrobabe)." Jamie D.Intended Parent "Thank you so much for everything you're doing for the surrogacy community...Your website is a breathe of fresh air, full of so much knowledge. And thanks to you I am matched with one of the amazing IP profiles you shared! I'm so excited for the next stages of my journey and to hopefully help them build their family." Tara H.Surrogate "I have held off on waiting to message you until this day came. Because of The Biggest Ask and you posting our profile online we connected with a carrier only 45 minutes away from us...We just got our official match today and we are so excited. thank you isn't enough for all you are doing for this community...thank you, thank you, thank you!" Chelsea F.Intended Parent Previous Next [instagram-feed feed=1]