The Biggest Ask Surrogacy Program

Using personalized support and technology to help intended parents and surrogates manage and thrive through the most meaningful journey of their lives

Celebrating 30 weeks!
Emma’s dream come true
MJ & Lauren
Photo shoot with the intended fathers

Only $99 per month gives each set of IPs and surrogate access to our one-of-a-kind program. Our current program size is 10 surrogacy journeys.

Join the waitlist now for the next open spot.

Personalized support.

Open text line and weekly consultation office hours for IPs and surrogates to get the support they need.

Custom technology

Access to our custom app that helps IPs and surrogates manage their journey and bond with each other.

Important resources

Curated milestone newsletters that educate you on what to expect at your next appointment. And more!

Who is supporting you through your journey?

MaryJane (MJ)

MJ is a mother through surrogacy and is the founder of The Biggest Ask. Leveraging her skills as a business professor, she has written a surrogacy guide, put together a surrogacy online course and now has developed this program and surrogacy app to help make beautiful surrogacy journeys possible for everyone. MJ’s mission is to make surrogacy as cost efficient and fulfilling as possible. Learn more about MJ’s story and follow her on Instagram.


Ashley is an experienced gestational surrogate and birthed twins to intended fathers in 2020. Ashley and MJ met through their mutual passion for surrogacy via Instagram in 2021 and together they have built a flourishing surrogacy community. Ashley is a stay-at-home mom and has two beautiful children, is an avid crocheter, gardener and a creative and enthusiastic DIY-er. She can do it all. Ashley is MJ’s yin to her yang and together they make the perfect team.

What you can expect from us

Offering The Biggest Ask Program Surrogacy Agencies
Match Surrogates and Intended Parents Yes via our matching post service Yes with frequent one-year wait times
Help screen gestational carriers Yes Yes
Discuss insurance options, lawyers and escrow Yes Yes
Give comprehensive and personalized support Yes Yes
Guide you through every milestone Yes Yes
Serve as an intermediary between intended parents and surrogates (if necessary) Yes Yes
Help with surrogate-IP bonding Yes No
Average Total Cost Per Surrogacy $1,800* + $150/matching post $25,000

Frequently asked questions

Yes! Our program is meant for anyone looking to make the most of their surrogacy journey. Whether you are wishing to bond more with your surrogacy partner, receive more support during your journey, or stay on top of all the moving parts, we have got you covered!

The Biggest Ask Surrogacy Program is meant to provide our members with the education and support they need to manage their own journey. We offer the technology to help intended parents and surrogates manage their own journeys and the support to help make the entire journey be as beautiful as can be. We do not personally coordinate with any third parties.

Yes! IPs still searching for a surrogate are encouraged to join the program if they would like a low-cost option to seek consultations about how to find a surrogate or how to get started. IPs might also want to consider running a matching ad with The Biggest Ask that is posted to our community if they are looking for a surrogate. Learn more here.

Absolutely! MJ has written a surrogacy guide available for $10 on Amazon. She also offers free online videos about the process that is available to everyone. Learn more here.

MJ and Ashley also host a free support call for IPs and surrogates, separately, every Tuesday (IPs) and Wednesday (surros). Sign up here to get the zoom link (support calls are audio based).

Our program is a monthly subscription. You are free at any time to end your subscription with us.

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Join our Waitlist!

Our current program size is 10 surrogacy journeys.
Join the waitlist now for the next open spot.