The Biggest Ask Matching Post – Inspire Your Future Surrogate with Your Story for Surrogacy

Social media is becoming one of the most common ways intended parents connect with surrogates. If you need help getting your story out there, consider creating a matching post with The Biggest Ask! For $149, we will post your story on Instagram and incentivize our followers to share your story among their followers. The more shares a post gets, the more likely you will find the right match for you. Any future re-posts are possible and will be charged $49 per post.

After filling out the sheet below, you will be prompted for payment. We advise that you save a copy of your story outside of this form in case you lose internet connection and the form doesn’t go through. All posts are scheduled to be posted within two weeks of submission. If you don’t have an Instagram account, we will ask interested women to connect with you via our website. Email MaryJane at if you have any questions or concerns.

Have more questions? Please see our FAQ. Or click here to see prior matching posts we have run!

New to surrogacy? Sign up with our website and watch our free Surrogacy Step-by-Step Guide, so you feel prepared for your journey.

And once you meet your match, we suggest you look into our surrogacy program!

Some of Our Featured Matching Posts

Matching posts for Intended Parents

Heather and Ben

Our Story Hi! We’re Wexler’s parents, Heather & Ben. An east coast Jersey girl and west coast surfer boy who met at the restaurant Ben

Matching posts for Intended Parents

Malcolm and Annie

About Us Hello, my name is Malcolm & I’d like to introduce you to my wonderful wife, Annie, and our life together. We’re both 40

Matching posts for Intended Parents


My Story As a single parent to be, I have tried to fulfill my dreams to be a mom for 10 years. I started out

Your City and State *(Required)
Number of embryos you currently have *(Required)
Name of fertility clinic:
What kind of relationship do you envision with your surrogate (e.g., little or a lot of communication)
Are you currently with an agency? If so, please indicate which one:(Required)

Here are the general requirements of a GC:

  • Carried at least 1 child without complications
  • Fewer than 3 deliveries via c-section
  • Body mass index in between 19 and 32
  • No smoking, abusing drugs, alcohol or prescription medications
  • Not receiving welfare, public housing or cash assistance from the government
  • Has a stable home life with emotional and child care support
  • No mental health conditions requiring the use of medications within the last 6 months (including depression)
  • No criminal record
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    Pick the template you would like for your post:(Required)

    For any questions or problems, please contact:

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    The answer to this question depends on how you measure “success”.  About 80% of our posts receive interest from a potential surrogate, but because we don’t follow up with each intended parent, we don’t know the outcome of each post. We do know that a significant portion of our matching posts result in successful surrogacy pregnancies.

    Yes, our match posts are for all intended parents – those signed with an agency or those doing an independent journey. In fact, many agencies recommend our matching posts to their intended parents. 

    We are so pleased to introduce our new system that allows you to make as many changes as you want! Our posting process is now automated and edits and cancellations can be done right on your post when you’re logged in!