The Biggest Ask Matching Post – For Intended Parents

Social media is becoming one of the most common ways intended parents connect with surrogates. If you need help getting your story out there, consider creating a matching post with The Biggest Ask! For $149, we will post your story on Instagram and incentivize our followers to share your story among their followers. The more shares a post gets, the more likely you will find the right match for you. If our post does not result in any successful matches for you, then we will repost matching post for free 2 months later. Any attempts after will be charged $49 per post.

After filling out the sheet below, you will be prompted for payment. We advise that you save a copy of your story outside of this form in case you lose internet connection and the form doesn’t go through. All posts are scheduled to be posted within two weeks of submission. Email MaryJane at if you have any questions or concerns.

Have more questions? Please see our FAQ.

And remember, as a member you already have exclusive access to our forums and Our Surrogacy Step-by-Step Guide, so make sure to use these resources especially created for you.

Name(s) if married *(Required)
Your City and State *(Required)
Number of embryos you currently have *(Required)
Name of fertility clinic:
What kind of relationship do you envision with your surrogate (e.g., little or a lot of communication)
Are you currently with an agency? If so, please indicate which one:(Required)

Here are the general requirements of a GC:

  • Carried at least 1 child without complications
  • Fewer than 3 deliveries via c-section
  • Body mass index in between 19 and 32
  • No smoking, abusing drugs, alcohol or prescription medications
  • Not receiving welfare, public housing or cash assistance from the government
  • Has a stable home life with emotional and child care support
  • No mental health conditions requiring the use of medications within the last 6 months (including depression)
  • No criminal record
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    Pick the template you would like for your post:(Required)

    For any questions or problems, please contact:

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    The answer to this question depends on how you measure “success”.  Almost all our posts receive some interest from a potential surrogate, but because we haven’t historically followed up with each Intended Parent set, we don’t know the outcome of each post. We do know that at least 3 sets of IPs have found their surrogate through posting with us. Their surrogates are all currently pregnant.  

    Yes, our match posts are for all intended parents – those signed with an agency or those doing an independent journey.

    A portion of the fee you pay to post with The Biggest Ask ($25) goes to the winner of a random giveaway. The winner of our random giveaway must share your post to their feed and comment on your post. More shares and more engagement increases the likelihood that your future surrogate comes across your story.

    You should be posting on both. The advantage with posting with The Biggest Ask is that because we are a community, our members are more likely to share your story to their followers, etc. You don’t get that kind of action on Facebook. Widespread visibility is the key to finding a surrogate on social media.

    You can try again for free in 2 months. Engagement on Instagram can be random. We are continually growing and perhaps in 2 months, the right woman will come across your post.

    Once we put a post together, we will send the post for your review. At that time, you can make as many changes as you want, but once you send it back to us, all changes are final. Any further revisions will incur an additional fee.